theladymonsters:

characters who have never had families building found families are very important to me

characters who have never had friends forging their first friendships are very important to me

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Source: theladymonsters

Originally from i'll swallow you whole

thankyoucorndog:

boomer-overboard:

thankyoucorndog:

"boy i’m in a great mood!"

"oh, please. you can’t REALLY be in a great mood. there are people out there who just got raises. people just got married. people are being reunited with their families right now. how dare you say you’re happy."

The equivalent of someone saying you can’t be sad because other people have it worse than you.

yes

(via cbobbert)

Source: thankyoucorndog

Originally from SKELETONS ON PARADE

bombing:

no more notes. no more notes. stop the fucking notes. just let me have this

bombing:

no more notes. no more notes. stop the fucking notes. just let me have this

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Source: bombing

Originally from [bombing]

fieldbears:

I think every writer/artist has that one story/drawing that gets completely skipped over, and they’d never say it aloud, but inside they’re like

'fuck all y'all, that's one of the best things I've done'

plus one story/drawing that everyone loves

'really? that one?’

(via garfeildlogan)

Source: fieldbears

Originally from Field Bears

How to Help a Friend with BPD

tequilamockingbird2015:

1. If we ask you if you’re mad at us, or if you’re still friends with us, please realize that it is NOT a reflection of you. You didn’t do anything wrong. Our illness is constantly telling us you’ll leave us, or that you see us as burdens. Sometimes we need to hear confirmation from you to ease our anxiety. So please, please don’t be upset with us.

2. Recognize that it’s hard for us to maintain contact with others, even our best friends. Again, our illnesses tell us that if you really want to spend time with us, you’ll ask us. We’re terrified that you just hang out with us out of pity. So when you text us first or ask us to hang out first, that’s proof to us that you actually want to see us.

3. Text us every once in a while. Little gestures like that remind us that you still consider us your friends. And receiving a message like that, even if it’s something simple like a silly anecdote, really makes our day.

4. Understand that our mood swings are very difficult to manage. Even when we know it doesn’t logically make sense for us to be depressed/anxious/angry/etc about something, we can’t control our emotions, no matter how hard we try. Trying to use logic to show that our emotions are irrational doesn’t help. So be patient with us, while recognizing that you aren’t responsible for managing our emotions.

5. Sometimes we decide to take breaks from drinking, so please keep that in mind before asking us to drink. Alcohol can worsen our symptoms if we drink too much, especially when we relapse. I only drink if I feel it’s safe for me to do so. But sometimes I won’t drink for months because I’m not doing well and I know alcohol will only make it worse. If I tell you I’m not drinking for personal reasons because I’m struggling with my illness, please don’t forget that and definitely don’t pressure me.

6. Help us set boundaries with you. Sometimes I’ll be clingy and want your attention all the time. Other times I’ll be distant and need space from everyone. These changes might be confusing for you because they happen without reason. Be honest with us and let us know if we’re too far on either extreme.

7. For reasons I don’t completely understand, a lot of us with BPD hate being touched.  This is also true for some survivors of sexual assault or abuse, and a lot of people with BPD have been sexually assaulted or abused before. Ask us if it’s okay for you to put your arm around us or hug us, especially when we’re in distress.

8. If you’re making plans with mutual friends of ours but aren’t inviting us, please don’t talk about these plans in front of us. It may well be that you aren’t inviting us because we’re busy and can’t make it anyway, or you know we won’t enjoy the outing (for example, if you’re going to hike and we hate exercise of any kind). However, if you’re getting a group together of people we know and could hang out with, we’ll feel especially isolated when we aren’t invited. We’re constantly looking for signs that our friends will abandon us, or don’t want us around, or secretly hate us. We’ll wonder why we weren’t invited, and this is especially triggering for us.

9. If we text you something that warrants a response (like a question or a personal issue), please do your best to text us back as soon as you can. When a friend doesn’t reply, especially a friend who frequently checks their phone, I interpret this as evidence that I’m worthless to them. It may well be that they’re busy, or that they didn’t receive the message, or that they just forgot to respond. Again, though I recognize that these are the most likely scenarios, I can’t stop myself from feeling this is a sign that she’s going to abandon me. 

10. Not everyone with BPD will act out (like accusing you of abandoning us or starting an argument) or use manipulating behaviors, but some of us do. And we feel extremely bad about this. Right after we start an argument, we spiral into self-loathing about it. We know that acting out is bad. We don’t actually want to hurt or manipulate you. We struggle with our overwhelming emotions and while we can’t suppress these emotions, with help we CAN learn to express and manage them in healthy ways. And again, not everyone with BPD will act out. There are mentally healthy people who manipulate others and feel perfectly fine in doing so, and there are mentally ill people who act out under extreme distress, feel immensely guilty about it, and do what they can to stop these behaviors.

(via spaceeyes)

Source: tequilamockingbird2015

Originally from My Life With Mental Illness

stimmyabby:

like when you’re tell people you’re not normal

and people are like “there’s no such thing as normal! :D”

like okay I’ll say this in language you understand

I’m not DEVELOPMENTALLY APPROPRIATE

I’m not SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE 

I’m not INDISTINGUISHABLE FROM TYPICALLY DEVELOPING PEERS

(via mid-childan-puella-magi)

Source: stimmyabby

Originally from Autistic Abby

lesliecrusher:

blanket apology to all the female celebrities i hated as a teenager because i was up to my eyeballs in internalized misogyny

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Source: lesliecrusher

Originally from because i'm...don't want to

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Source: dio-archive

Originally from ☆ STRIKE A POSE ☆

(via go-go-godot)

Source: chtot

Originally from (ง’̀-‘́)ง

fairymascot:

adventuresofcomicbookgirl:

I’m glad Miles shares my opinion of Franziska

SEE IF ONLY HE HAD ACTUALLY LET HER KNOW HOW HIGHLY HE THINKS OF HER AS SHE WAS GROWING UP SHE MIGHT’VE BEEN A SLIGHTLY LESS MESSED UP INDIVIDUAL WITH NO SENSE OF SELF WORTH TODAY!!!
like gosh it’s just painful how much they’ve always respected and cared for each other but were too emotionally stilted and and distant to let each other know. STUPID SIBLINGS you make me so sad

fairymascot:

adventuresofcomicbookgirl:

I’m glad Miles shares my opinion of Franziska

SEE IF ONLY HE HAD ACTUALLY LET HER KNOW HOW HIGHLY HE THINKS OF HER AS SHE WAS GROWING UP SHE MIGHT’VE BEEN A SLIGHTLY LESS MESSED UP INDIVIDUAL WITH NO SENSE OF SELF WORTH TODAY!!!

like gosh it’s just painful how much they’ve always respected and cared for each other but were too emotionally stilted and and distant to let each other know. STUPID SIBLINGS you make me so sad

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Source: ladyloveandjustice

Originally from Adventuresofcomicbookgirl with a new codename

I really like the headcanon that I see really often in klapollo fics where klavier is the first to fall for apollo and when he realizes it he tries to flirt with him but apollo is completely oblivious to his flirting much to klavier’s dismay, since klavier is used to frauleins falling all over him and understanding that he’s interested right away, and he’s completely at a loss for a while when it comes to wooing apollo

lawyertrash:

apollo justice? nah what a nerd only losers-[trips] [hundreds of thousands of pictures of apollo spill out of jacket] haha y-yea only loser nerds would like ahahah these aren’t mine [gathering them up frantically sweating] listen im just fcuk im [thousands of pictures of apollo scatter across the floor] what an asshole listen im just holding them for a friend just listen

(via go-go-godot)

Source: lawyertrash

Originally from im fine!